Sexual tension is important when you want to get a woman interested in you. It is a subtle way to be sexual, but can be just as powerful as a direct approach. Sexual tension is the presence of a controlled arousal state, in the absence of overt sexual interest. It will help you maintain intrigue with a sense of ambiguity. You are turning her mind to sexual thoughts without saying that is what you want. There are two reasons why a sexually aroused state is so important. Women like to think that something good is coming their way, and you want them to be in the mood long before you make your move.
It isn’t just being turned on although that is important it is more a state of mind. The tension between you will lead to being turned on by one another. When you verbalize sexual interest it puts her in a position where she has to agree to it. She must consciously admit that this is leading to sex. This isn’t necessarily bad but it also isn’t good. It sometimes can create a mental block in her mind for getting isolated with you. Creating tension is important because it hints at chemistry between you. It will get you started thinking about taking it to the bedroom no matter whether you are bowling or sitting across from each other at a coffee shop.
Once you have created the tension you can drive it up with flirting and touching while you are talking. You will generate more heat between the two of you and lead up to more touching. Once you finally build it up where you are all over each other, a hint, dancing can create quite a bit of tension; then you will be ready to go home and rip each other’s clothes off.