Many men are perplexed by the idea of a female player. She’s not smooth, or charming like the male player. Instead, she’s coy, mysterious and intelligent. She’s knows exactly how to press your buttons and stroke your ego to get what she wants. Trust us, female players aren’t just reserved for music videos featuring Lil’ Kim – these ladies come in all shapes and sizes, and they’re everywhere.

Here’s how you can spot one:

 She never picks up her phone

She always seems too busy to hangout and she never returns your calls. Now, it should be said that all girls will avoid a guy’s call once in a while – it’s a simple rule of the dating game. But you’re noticing that she hardly responds to your contact attempts then the chances are good that she’s got other guys on the go. In addition, if she only hangs out with last minute and on her terms then she’s probably a player.

She leaves after sex

It’s a rare thing to hear, but some women actually do this. They get laid, and then they peace out, leaving the guy thinking, “What the f*ck?! Isn’t that supposed to be me?” Women love sex just as much as men do. The female player will get what she wants whether it’s sex, or a dinner, or a shopping spree, and when her selfish time is over, she will out of there faster than a bat out of hell.

She’s not nice to you

If a woman isn’t complimenting you, then you know there’s something up. The female player will never fall in-love with her prey, and will always choose someone she wants to keep at a distance. This makes it hard for her to say anything genuine about you. A good indicator is if she never wants to be seen in public with you – this is because she’s afraid of bumping into other guys she might know. If all she does is take your time by talking about her, and never asking you any questions, then the chances are pretty high that she is using you for one thing or another.